Not to be single anymore, right! Most people want to be in a loving relationship. Feeling rejected is mankind’s biggest fear. I get that 100%! I feel better when I am a part of a community, a group of friends who love me and get me. I feel great when I’m in a thriving relationship. But, in the meantime when we find ourselves currently not a part of a loving relationship, that is when we have to take care of ourselves and make sure that we do the activities, hobbies,(yuck, I hate that word) steps, that make us happy and whole, to attract the next guy, girlfriend, job, or whatever we want. We should be able to be happy where we are right now.
Life is about transforming from where you are now, into something bigger and better.
Force your self to do something that scares you. Join a group, or club. Smile at people. (this was hard for me to do), Go on line to find a date, and be of service to others.
Be good to your self. Smile at your self in the mirror. (Just do it, no one can see you) Thank God for the things you have and thank God for the things you want. Live your life as if you already have those things. Make a list of what you want. Create a vision board.
Yes, there are a lot of decent guys out there! Stop saying things like, all the good guys are married, all the guys on line are weird. You are single, and you are great, there are guys who are your equal, who are looking for love, I’ve met lots of great guys on line (and have just recently been dating a great one), and if you need help with this, email me because I know how to weed out the losers, and attract the perfectly suited one for you!
Think Abundance. Say this everyday, “There are lots of great guys out there, and I’m going to meet one.” Don’t hate where you are right now, embrace it and have fun.
Let me know how it works!!
“Everything is rigged in our favor.”-Rumi